A co-worker of mine is planning her wedding. Another is a newlywed of one year.
They both seem to spend an awful amount of time on the phone cajoling, nagging or bribing their partners to do things. Seemingly innocuous things that their partners seem very loathe to get off their apparently lazy arses and do. It's not always like that, sometimes, when the blokes actually have done something as asked, I hear incredulous voices quizzing them as to why the fuck they did it the way they did. The boys get an earful, the girls get upset.
So, I ask you . . . why would you?